Saturday, 3 March 2018

Exam phobia

A kind of phobia found in everyone, children, adolescents, adults; irrespective of age are prone to the stress and worries an examination brings along. The question is, why is this fear? After some thought, I could come to a sensible conclusion. That was:
because some uncontrollable force beyond our reach and knowledge, an unknown force is going to interrogate us and on the basis of our knowledge, understanding and application we have to answer and our saviours, our resources, our books wouldn't be in our access to save us.
Everyone feels the same in the examination scenario, no matter what age group they belong to. Adults handle the examination time and stress on their own because they have become accustomed to it but younger ones, adolescents and children are the most vulnerable ni victims. The sense of competition frightens them and they have sleepless nights coupled with loss of appetite. Of course examination is necessary to evaluate the learning of the students and I am certainly not against it, but there are certain simple things that can be done to avoid the stress and anxiety here. If everyone is told competition is only with themselves and their previous scores, perhaps things would be much better. The comparisons that parents do have a lot of effect on the young minds which can hamper their overall social development. Its best to make them compete with the scores they had earlier, that would for sure bring out better of their potential.

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  1. Well done Darling.....keep on writing 👍

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  2. I totally agree with you. The only true competition we have is with ourselves

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    1. Yes. But unfortunately this is what everyone forgets. If they have this simple idea in mind then life would be much better during exam time.

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  3. Thank you for sharing your views ma'am
    As these are the real feeling that I (a class 12 student ) or other students have to go through.
    It is truly said that we need to compete with ourself and compare our past with present and lay a well plan and work on it to improve to become better ourselves.

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    1. I had you all in mind while writing this and also my own experience when I was at the same place where you are right now. What pressurises a human is not how he will do but how others will do and that leads to all anxiety. This is what we all go through at all competitive stages. But just rely on your hard work and tell yourself that you're going to do the best of what you can. Life will be more beautiful😊

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